Requirements for Foster/Adoptive Families

Requirements for Foster and Adoptive Families in New Hanover County

  • Foster parents 
    • provide a temporary home for children who are placed in custody of Department of Social Services.
    • Children enter DSS custody for a variety of reasons, including abuse, neglect or the lack of an appropriate adult to provide care. 
    • During the child's placement in foster care, the Department will actively work with parents in an effort to reunify children with the parents or extended family members.
  • Adoptive parents 
    • provide a permanent, loving home to children who are unable to return to their biological parents or other family members. 
    • Often, foster parents who have cared for a child during the "reunification period" commit to adopting the child if those reunification efforts are not successful.
  • Basic requirements for candidates: 
    • Complete a 30 hour pre-service training course; 
    • Obtain multiple background clearances (including sex offender registry, criminal history and finger print checks); 
    • Pass a fire and an environmental inspection of the home
    • Obtain medical clearance from their doctor
    • Be able to meet their own financial obligations without dependency on the board payment; 
    • Participate in an in-depth home study process; 
    • Complete the formal application for licensure of a foster home.
  • Special Skills and Characteristics: Candidates for foster and adoptive parenting must be able to provide a safe environment for a child and provide for his or her basic physical and emotional needs, treating the child as a member of the family. Foster and adoptive parents must commit to the following responsibilities as they relate to a child in foster care:
    • Ensure the child regularly attends school while monitoring the child's progress, special needs and accomplishments
    • Provide appropriate and adequate clothing
    • Attend to the child's medical and dental needs
    • Provide transportation to appointments
    • Encourage recreational and enrichment activities which promote healthy development
    • Provide consistent and realistic discipline in compliance with agency established policy
    • Be capable of supporting a child through the grieving and adjustment process that accompanies removal from their own home and placement in foster care - including helping the child maintain a realistic relationship with their family and the maintenance of a record of the time a child spends in the home including photographs, report cards, awards, etc.
  • HIghlights: 
    • Licensed foster and adoptive parents are invited to participate in a monthly support group meeting. 
    • The Department provides in-service training opportunities each year on topics of interest identified by foster and adoptive parents.
    • The Department hosts three events throughout the year in an effort to show appreciation for our families.
    • Families receive a monthly newsletter with useful information regarding changes in policy, upcoming events and informational tips.
  • Hours: This is a full time commitment! We do offer "respite" services for families who need a few days break along the way.
  • Financial Compensation: This is a volunteer position, however, New Hanover County DSS does provide a monthly non-taxable stipend to foster families which helps off set the cost of caring for a child in foster care, including expenses associated with transportation, food, clothing, school supplies and other incidental items.